Book Club Discussion Questions

Which character in the book do you find most intriguing? Why? Which one experiences the most growth?

Do you believe you would seek out your biological mother if you were adopted? Why or why not?

What are your thoughts on an open versus closed adoption? Is one preferable over the other? Why?

Do you think some secrets should be held private, even from loved ones? When is it acceptable not to share something from your past?

What was your reaction to Jim’s response to Rose’s confession about her past? Did you expect him to be so upset that she had a child he did not know about? Why or why not?

Did you connect with Rose’s need for reconciliation? Are there any people or situations that you need to reconcile?

Were you sympathetic at all with David and his life? Why or why not?

Was Rose justified in how she approached David? Was she justified in her actions, or should she have left the situation alone? Is revenge ever justified?